Permission to Make What You MOST Need to Create
Do you have a project you’ve been wanting to make for years, but just keep putting off? I sure do! This week I decided to clear the decks which means shelving a book I’ve been working on for months so I can focus on another book that’s much more important. Hear all about my decision in this episode:
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Jump ahead to time: 21:55 to get straight to the topic of the podcast.
I apologize for the rambling nature of this podcast. I had a cold last week, then got hay fever after working outside, so I was a bit feverish when I recorded this!
Make sure to watch the podcast with Frank Bennett from two weeks ago and you can see the difference between my energy level. I found this helpful just to remember that I don’t run at full speed all the time!
Quilting News
I didn’t post a podcast last week because I was busy with a huge book edit (more on that later). Book editing is the one thing that is so all-consuming, I just can’t focus on anything else.
So that means I haven’t been doing very much creative work outside of that project. I got a tiny bit of work done on a Ms. Bunny Spoonflower panel. I’ll run a test of that next week and see how it’s looking.
I celebrated a big finish with my Tree of Life Quilt! I absolutely love how this quilt turned out and I love the Curvy Chevron pantograph I used to quilt it.
Click here to find the last tutorial I shared about quilting right to the edges of the quilt.
I also finished up the hand applique for the Eye of Calm goddess quilt and shared my ideas for securing this big applique to the background fabric. I’m planning to put this on my longarm frame as well and to baste it using water soluble thread. I think that will work best to stabilize the layers and prep for Trapunto as well.
By the way, you can learn about trapunto in the Heart and Feather Wholecloth workshop, which includes a small wholecloth quilt and all the steps to making your quilting motifs super puffy!
Permission to Make What You MOST Want to Create
I began the book Rise to the Challenge of Your Life on Christmas Eve and finished the last story before the end of January. Since then, I’ve been editing. And editing, and editing. Memoir writing is a lot harder than I thought and this first draft had a lot of issues!
After another solid week of editing, I decided to shelve this book. This may be something I publish in a few years, or it may never be published. It will probably take at least another 8 weeks to finish editing and I just don’t think the juice is worth the squeeze.
This was a really hard choice, but I’m shelving it so I can work on a project that’s much closer to my heart – my goddess quilt book. While writing Rise to the Challenge, I realized I’ve been living in regret about this for many years. This forced me to get serious and stop putting off the thing I really wanted to create most.
Clear the Decks
I publish one book a year on average. Did I want this year’s book to be Rise to the Challenge, or the Goddess Quilt Book?
The answer to this question made everything simple. I want to write the book about my goddess quilts. That means I need to clear the decks and get serious about making this a reality THIS YEAR!
In a lot of ways this is like giving yourself permission to work on a fantastic quilt that you been wanting to tackle but have been too afraid to try. It’s not difficult to focus on the easy, the fast, the quick, and the pretty and miss out on the incredible journey of making something more challenging.
It’s also scary to clear the decks and stop work on a project that’s taken a lot of time and energy already. For a few days, I struggled with feeling like a quitter.
Quitting is Good
But is quitting such a bad thing in this case? After a lot of journaling and thinking, I realized quitting isn’t always a bad thing.
Quitting work on this book is the best thing I can do. Rise to the Challenge was basically a two-month intensive class on memoir writing. The experience I gained with this book was huge! I learned how to write in the past tense, how to tell my story without apologizing, and how to share without oversharing.
Sharing personal experience is tricky and I would not have understood that without writing this book. For that reason, it was absolutely not a waste of time. If anything, Rise to the Challenge has given me the skills, the ability, the strength, and the knowledge I needed to write a book about my goddess quilts. I didn’t waste a single second working on that book because it taught me everything I needed to know.
But that doesn’t mean I have to finish it. I can happily set it aside now and focus on writing the beautiful book I’ve been needing to create for many years.
What do YOU Need to Create?
I hope this rambling podcast will help you identify the things you want to make and give yourself permission to clear the decks so that you can work on them.
Yes, a quilt can be far more than a blanket you curl up with in bed. Making a special quilt can change your life and that is exactly what many quilts have done for me over the years.
I cannot wait to share this journey with you! More to share very soon!
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Let’s go quilt,
Leah Day
Click the links below to find more Hello My Quilting Friends Podcasts:
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- #96 – Creative Ways to Beat the Winter Blues
- #95 – From Fire Fighter to Fiber Artist with Brandy Maslowski
- #94 – Cleaning Up to Be Creative
- #93 – Fixing Quilting Mistakes with Beth Collins
- #92 – Rising to Unexpected Challenges
- #91 – Quilt Blogging in 2019 with Vicki Holloway
- #90 – Tracing a New Goddess Quilt
- #89 – My Word of the Year for 2019
Thank you!!!!!
I’m listening to (and watching) your podcast. You are saying things to me that I need to hear. I did start a quilt that is REALLY challenging me. I saw the pattern for it and I have a friend who has terminal cancer, the pattern screamed my friend’s name to me, so I decided to make it for her. I found all the material for it in my stash in the colors she likes. I started making the templates to cut out the pieces, I cut the fabric as carefully as I possibly could. I have a tendency to not fully understand the directions until I have to pick the stitches out . (sometimes several times!) I worked through it and finally came up with a flimsy! Now. I put the backing together, got my batting and top together, and my present challenge is to get the sandwich together PROPERLY. I have pinned and unpinned it four times now. UGH! The backing always comes out too loose. Do you have some advice for me to get this together and finally quilt it? I want to get it finished and give it to her so she can cuddle in it in her last days. Please? What can I do? I tried the taping to the table method, using boards to rollup the components and unroll, and clamping the individual parts to my table. I cannot get down on the floor to pin it. (I wouldn’t be able to get up and I have carpeting that I don’t want to pin it to) Please, please, please?
Thank you for sharing Claudia! I’m so glad you took on this project and have a super special quilt top ready to quilt! As for basting it together properly, you could try renting time on a longarm and baste it with water soluble thread. Then it will hold together firmly while you quilt the quilt. I do have a solid method that uses a different material than masking tape to hold the backing tight to a table top and I basted in sections. You can find that tutorial in either the Quilting a King Workshop or the Basting Basics Workshop and you can find both classes here: https://leahday.com/collections/workshops