Don’t Buy Your Kid a Toy Sewing Machine

LeahDay

Leah Day has been teaching online since 2009. She's the creator of the Free Motion Quilting Project, a blog filled with thousands of quilting tutorial videos. Leah has written several books including 365 Free Motion Quilting Designs, Explore Walking Foot Quilting with Leah Day, and Mally the Maker and the Queen in the Quilt.

52 Responses

  1. Pat says:

    I agree wholeheartedly regarding using a real sewing machine and tools and common sense. Some things will need more supervision than others and by making mistakes is where the greatest learning takes place.

  2. Alison says:

    Yes! My dad always had the same philosophy about Easy Bake Ovens — just teach how to use the real oven properly! 🙂

  3. LJ says:

    I really do agree with most of your thoughts above but I did want to share my little story. Keep in mind that I am in my 70s now!!
    I have the toy sewing machine that Santa gave me (I was probably 6 or 7.) It only made a chain stitch and had a hand crank, but it did work and I made a few simple things for my dolls – like a blanket. Then when I was about 10, I used my birthday $$ to buy an electric toy stove. The folks were shocked when they realized that it REALLY worked. The burners got hot enough to fry potatoes, etc. The oven worked beautifully to made cakes, muffins, etc. Yep, after the first time (Did I mention they were surprised?), I could only use the stove with supervision but I certainly learned about getting burned and being careful. 🙂 Actually, I still have the stove; used it about 11/12 years ago and it still worked well. I'll have to admit that I'm a bit sensitive about the old wiring so haven't plugged it in since. What wonderful memories I have of those toys. I'm afraid they don't make them like they used to. 🙁

  4. Leah Day says:

    Thank you so much for sharing your story! I agree, toy sewing machines were once higher quality and actually worth buying for a child. I'm glad you still have your little oven and maybe you can get the plug changed out by an electrician. It's a shame to not be able to enjoy playing with it!

  5. Lydia Baker says:

    Very well put! I totally agree with you on teacher big kids the "real way"! I taught my kids the same way your Dad taught you! I am now teaching my grandkids the same way! My 4 year old granddaughter just made a doll quilt on my featherweight!!!

  6. Agi says:

    And yes, he also sews with my machine, and loves free motion quilting. He never hurt his finger, because he does it very carefully. Sometimes I feel like putting my diamond ring in a grinder when I hear the noise makes with a wrong move, but my machine is a medium quality one, and always think even if something happens with it it worth – he grows up that these are natural things to do and sees everything as fun not as something as a must.

  7. Agi says:

    My son is turning 6 in March and he is cooking/baking with me in the kitchen since he is 2. We started with some cookie dough smoothing, and now he can make almost anything alone with a very little help, the only thing I do for him is cutting the big or extrafine things (he does the medium) and taking things out from the hot oven. He loves it, because it is real food and not just plaything. Of course I am always supervising, but it is so cute when he is explaining what to do any how – we made a video about home made strawberry jam for the family. And yes, he is doing the jam cooking, which can be dangerous, but he knows and always very careful. He knows his limits, and asks for help if he needs. I think this is the key: if you let them to take care of themselves and give your children responsability – and let them know you are always there to give a helping hand if needed – they learn how to use their skills and became comfortable in the world.

  8. elnorac says:

    Wow! I soooo agree with everything you wrote! A Singer featherweight might be a good machine for a kid to start with. They're small, they stitch like a dream, and they don't break the bank.

    Thanks for your sensible post.

  9. Angela says:

    I love this post. My mom was a scaredy-cat mom who gasped and jumped at everything we did. Luckily my dad gave us tools and let us go at it. I'm still the kind of person who would rather do it and fail a few times even if there are bumps along the way. I try my best to do with with my kids. Although I do have a little of that jump and gasp that my mom had.

  10. Jen says:

    I shudder to think of how many children get turned off of sewing after having to tackle an inefficient machine, then thinking it isn't worth the trouble.

  11. moosecraft says:

    Bravo!!! You should write a book on parenting! 🙂 Teaching children the right way to do things with real tools is the only way to do it! Sure… this way takes time and patience… but, that's what being a parent truly is, isn't it? 🙂

  12. Andi says:

    My daughter had the same frustration with the cheap toy machine. It was much better to set my real machine on the piano bench, pull up a child-size chair, and have her try it. Hooray for authentic learning!

  13. Beverley says:

    Toy sewing machines don't make a sewing stitch, they chain. So not realistic anyway. I never do free maching if tired, mistakes for one and safety concentration another. Likewise, consider my clothing for my task, sleeves which might catch, or knock things flying when reaching across,

  14. Southern Gal says:

    Thanks for this timely post. I've been searching for a machine for my granddaughter. Any suggestions on a machine for a 5 1/2 year old who loves to help her Nona sew? Or for that matter a good machine for Nona to replace the 20+ year old Kenmore she uses? (Budget for me would be under $1000, for granddaughter $200.)

  15. smullis says:

    Go vintage … better yet, go vintage handcrank, and nobody gets hurt. Singer spartan or singer 99, mount a spoked handwheel and handcrank, and you have the ultimate portable. Brilliant for teaching someone to sew, excellent for piecing, totally quiet and reliable, takes standard needles and 66 style drop in bobbins.

  16. Karen Elder says:

    I agree with you, teach them to do it right and do it for real.

    Last year my supervisor, who doesn’t sew, told me that her 11 year-old daughter wanted a sewing machine so they bought her the toy that you have pictured.
    They were having problems trying to get it to work and she wanted advise.
    I told her the best thing that she could do was to return it to the store and that it would not help her daughter learn to sew.

    A few days later, I found a REAL Singer at the Goodwill store for $3.95, all attachments were there, but no manual.
    Only problem was that it was threaded wrong and needed cleaned up.

    I found a manual online and printed it out, gathered up some fabric and added a pack of needles and made a young lady very happy.
    I don’t live close enough to give her lessons but she found a learn to sew class at her local library.

    My 10 year-old grandson started helping me about 4 years ago when he picked out the colors for his quilt.
    Back then he mostly just pushed the foot pedal for me because he was afraid of the needle.
    Now, when he wants “grandma time,” he comes into my sewing room and gets a stack of 2 inch scrap blocks and just sew them into pairs.
    Last year, he designed a wall hanging for his mom and did most of the piecing.

    KarenSue in Ohio

  17. Nina Paley says:

    Vintage sewing machines are simple, plentiful, better quality than almost anything you can get today, and less expensive than new machines. Many vintage machine collectors get their kids hand-crank models – not the toy chain stitch ones (although those are nice if you like chain stitch) but lockstitch machines like the Singer 99K. They say being able to hand-crank lets the kids control the speed better and keeps their fingers out of danger of runaway needles.

  18. Teri says:

    Well, you would think that you would only sew through your finger once. I am here to tell you that is not always the case. I did it once as a teenager and again in my 50s, I sew very fast, just like I do most things, and pops-it just happened!

  19. Teri says:

    While I agree with you, I am surprised that you haven't gotten dissenting comments from people. If you buy a toy machine, your kid could work more independently, and mom can go do something else ( that is no doubt more important than spending actual time teaching your child to sew).

  20. claudia says:

    I agree with you. Children have become less likely to try different things because their parents are afraid of them getting hurt. That just leads to less and less things being tried as they get older, because, being afraid of things is a learned behavior. My girls never showed an interest in sewing, but they did have interests in other things, so I either taught them myself about their interests or found another qualified adult when I didn't know how myself. The trick here is, to spend the time, teaching the places to be cautious! Now, at 29 years of age, one of my girls is taking some interest in my quilting and mentioned it would be good for me to teach her, because we could then spend time together. I love it!!!

  21. kathy says:

    had that machine for my granddaughter and it lasted exactly 10 minutes when i could not get the chain stitch to even chain stitch…so she is using my featherweight and loving it. has become a good little seamstress, loves doing the panels since lots of the fussy patching is done. All three of the grandchildren have used the featherweights and also the blue Kenmore machines with great success. My thoughts are to give them a good machine to use so that they will develop the love of sewing

  22. Kate says:

    Yes! SOOOO agree with you. I also cringe when adults want to 'try' sewing with a cheap machine from the equivalent of Walmart, or buy cheap thread or buy cheap fabric – NOOOOO!!!! It's best to borrow a good machine, or buy a good vintage one, and to buy a few good quality supplies. On another note, I have been sewing a long long time and I have never stitched through my fingers, so I wouldn't say it's an occupational hazard exactly 🙂

  23. Kate Chiconi says:

    My parents would never have wasted money on 'kid version' tools! I completely agree with your post and the best way to encourage/discourage kids who want to learn. If they're interested, they're ready, and as you say, once is all it takes to learn not to put fingers under the needle.

  24. You are totally right Leah, children need to learn about risks by taking risks, otherwise they don't know what their limits or boundaries are. If we guide them to take those risks (rather than hover overtop of them and stop them doing anything) then it means that by the time they are making the really big decisions about their actions as teenagers/adults, then hopefully they will make the right choices.

  25. Angie says:

    Great post Leah. My boys are grown, but we always allowed and encouraged them to use "real" tools for the job they were learning or doing. When we gutted and renovated our last house they were 3, 6, and 8 and they were pulling nails out of boards, and pounding nails in other places. They all learned to do basic car maintenance, do laundry, clean the house, and cook. It's a good thing too because they all three married girls who can't cook. 🙂

  26. Kristine says:

    Do you have a recommendation for an inexpensive machine with a speed control? That is actually my main concern. I know some you can set the top speed.

  27. Leah Day says:

    Totally understandable Angela! No one wants their kids to get hurt…but if we don't occasionally fall down how do we ever learn how to pick ourselves back up again?

  28. Leah Day says:

    Absolutely! Finding the right height table / chair can be an issue, but nothing beats a real machine.

  29. Leah Day says:

    I would pass your old Kenmore to your grandaughter because you're really familiar with how it sews and how to use it. For you, it really depends on what you love to do most and what new features you're interested in playing with. I love my Juki Exceed F400 which retails for around $800.

  30. Leah Day says:

    I'm now looking into the old handcrank toy machines just for fun. They USED to be built so wonderfully…

  31. Leah Day says:

    It's so wonderful that you're teaching so many children how to sew on real machines. It's amazing what you can find at antique malls or even Ebay for not much money, and they are solid, workhorse machines that are so much better than the cheap plasticy machines for the same price!

  32. Leah Day says:

    I can remember being taught how to use my first real machine in an afternoon and then being able to work relatively independently after that. Kids don't need a constant teacher hovering over them, but someone nearby to ask for help when they really need it.

  33. Leah Day says:

    That's wonderful! Sometimes sewing is a bug that bites later in life and I love that she's asked you for help now.

  34. Leah Day says:

    I honestly agree. You've got to be doing something wrong – not paying attention, working too fast, being distracted or tired – to hurt yourself badly with a sewing machine. First rule of machine safety (any machine or power tool) is to make sure you're up for the job and focused on what you're doing.

  35. Leah Day says:

    I'm really loving my Juki Exceed F400. It has speed control and a wide range of features that usually come with more expensive machines.

  36. Leah Day says:

    Absolutely! You're going to raise a healthy, independent ADULT – that's the whole point!

  37. What a wonderful blog post!! I enjoyed (and agreed with) every word. In the 1950s and 60s my mother was far too protective of me, but I'll give her this–she did try (for about 10 minutes) to teach me to sew on a real machine (let's just say she was not the most patient mother on the planet). Fast forward 15 years later, and I got the patient lessons I needed from my husband's mom, who passed away in 2009. I'm eternally grateful to her, and I now have the wonderful machine on which she taught me to sew, the 1962 Singer 503a.

  38. I forgot to add that the sewing speed can always be adjusted to very slow even if you do it by putting something under the foot pedal.

  39. I had a toy sewing machine which I thoroughly enjoyed. I made my doll clothes with it, but it was a solidly built toy Singer sewing machine. It had a hand crank and I loved it.

    HOWEVER, I bought my first two granddaughters a children's sewing machine and I think it was even a singer, battery operated and it was a piece of junk. I would never consider one of those today. I think some of the cheaper machines would be perfect for a child to learn on. Like any other activity our children engage in, we should always be close at hand to help and assure their safety at all times. I WOULD NEVER EVER BUY ANOTHER TOY SEWING MACHINE!!! Thanks for creating this post!

  40. BOUGHT my DD a KENMORE basic machine for $150. I was able to verify that the KENMORE was actually made by Janome .. just had KENMORE name on it. All of my feet for my JANOME fit her machine. The machine was great for introducing her to basic sewing and quilting…. no problems with it and it still is kicking around but mostly goes to classes or retreats with me because I hate breaking down my sewing set up to take to class. Basic machines made by a good manufacture is a good way to introduce a newbie to sewing….. Another alternative is buy an good use machine …. I have picked up several for under $100 … Singer 301 mechanical machine just straight stitches but what do you need more than that…. Did run into trouble getting bobbins for the 301.

  41. Ken and Dot says:

    Great post! I was the kid who sewed over her finger. This only happened once. Thanks to a wise mother who gave me a bandaid and said, "Keep up the good work," I became very good with a sewing machine. I wish parents today were so encouraging.

  42. I agree! I was using my mum's sewing machine since before I was ten. My first sewing machine of my own was an antique Singer – real but needing to be hand cranked. I am not so old that I pre-date electricity 🙂 , but we lived in the country so reliable power supply was a factor in that choice. My next machine, when we had power, was secondhand. I would recommend secondhand to parents – you can get more features so a child is not constrained by a limited machine but at a better price.
    I still have my antique Singer!

  43. Jane Galley says:

    I am so with you on this, much better to teach them how to deal with the danger then keep them away. My son made himself a little needlecase on the machine when he was about seven or eight, he was so proud of himself

  44. Paule-Marie says:

    Learned to sew on my grandmother's Singer treadle machine. Noni would peddle and I would guide. It took a while to get the rhythm. But I was probably around 4 or 5. Noni bought a used Montgomery Ward machine for me and eventually a Singer Touch and Sew. Did I say I was spoiled? I learned to cook from her too, old Wedgewood gas range. Never had an easy bake oven, I was 11 by the time it came out and knew my way around the kitchen.

    While I don't have kids or grandkids, I definitely would start them on my machines and then get a mid-level machine for their own.

  45. Yes, Leah there is nothing more frustrating than to get something that doesn't work. My sisters and I learned how to sew on our Mon's early 1900 singer. We sewed on newspaper with no thread to help us get a straight stitch. My kids and grand kids started with a simple project with thread and fabric! My 7 year old great granddaughter has already made her first doll quilt and her seams are near perfect! She is a quilter for sure. I was nearly 50 before I ever got my finger under the needle and that was only because I thought my cat was going to get her paw under it as she was helping me sew! Another granddaughter burned her self on the iron. I told her she was now an official quilter, because she now had paid the price to be one. No scars were left. My youngest son was 10 when I purchased a new sewing machine before I could sit down to use it he was stitching his name with it! They really are ready to learn we just have to give them the right tools and let them go! That is why they are so much better than us with the electronics, they have no fear. Fear holds us back!

  46. Annie says:

    When my daughter was about 5 I wanted to get her a machine. I went to the Singer dealer and when I told them how old my daughter was, then said, "oh, you don't want a machcine like this, get her a toy machine." Well I walked out and to the Elna/Bernina dealer and they were more than glad to sell me a basic Elna, which many, many years later is still going strong and is an awesome machine.

  47. Lori Mattia says:

    I bought my 3 year old granddaughter the toy machine and she loves it. I'm a sewer so she watches me so on my "grown up" machine. I explained to her that when she gets older I will get her a real machine!

  48. Tracy Roy says:

    They are the most expensive of the vintage machines (Although cheaper than most of the plastic crap offered today). You can find a lot of wonderful image machines for under $100 on Craigslist, and garage sales.

  49. I started sewing with a needle and thread at 6 years old; a ripped pair of favorite shorts needed mending. My mother found what I had done and for Christmas that year was given a tiny Singer Chain Stitcher. It had a crank for sewing; real thread was used. I used this for everything until I was 16 years old!! Doll clothes, aprons, blankets, my own clothes. I learned to carefully ensure that the seams threads were secured, or the whole thing would 'unchain'.

    Some history: my grandmother professionally did crochet beading at home for income and I watched her do, laying under the frame and she her hands move and the tiny crochet needle thread the beads; my mother sewed everything and saved $500 for the most up-to-date Singer zig-zag machine (that was a lot of money in 1955). I remember when she brought it home and was amazed at what the machine could do; I was only 4 at the time. I would watch her sew all the time; sometimes asking questions and probably being taught concepts well before I took that first needle to sew my shorts.

    I have fond memories using this tiny Singer; it kindled my love of making things, sewing, and being creative using my mother's fabric scraps. I then really appreciated the 'real' sewing machine when my mother finally allowed me to use her Singer zig-zag. I earned my privilege and the rest is history.

    Thank you.

  50. Jennifer says:

    Great post!A Singer featherweight might be a good machine for a kid to start with. They’re small, they stitch like a dream, and they don’t break the bank.

    • LeahDay says:

      I agree Jennifer, but people have different opinions on what is expensive when it comes to machines. Most Featherweights in good condition sell for over $400 on Ebay. Most people wouldn’t spend that on a kid or even themselves. Most machines unfortunately sell at Walmart and quite unfortunately the low quality and terrible build result in more frustration than actual sewing. Check out the vintage toy and miniature machines like the Singer 20 and Essex Miniature Machine. After writing this post, I found them on Ebay and the Essex is now my go-to travel machine!

  51. Mania says:

    Hi Lea! I fully agree with you regarding the use of real objects and devices to learn life. By the way, thank you for your posts. I learned a lot from you. I greet you warmly from the distant Poland.

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